How can I soften my hair at home? How to Soften Hair At Home 1. Mix three eggs with one tablespoon of honey and two tablespoons of either coconut or olive oil. Damp your scalp and hair. 2. Mix a half cup of yoghurt with 1 ½ tablespoon of almond oil. 3. Take one tablespoon each of vinegar, olive oil and almond oil and mix with three eggs. Not solely is that this masks a marvel.